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FUN FACT:
Did you know they don’t use coins on military bases in Afghanistan or Iraq? They’re heavy, thus no fun to transport from the States. Military folk use laminated paper coins instead. Here’s a photo of some of them. Cool, huh? Still, it’s a fact I kind of wish I didn’t know. Why? Because that means I know someone who travels to the Middle East. Like my husband.

Not that I should worry. Rick doesn’t travel there often and, when he does, he assures me he is safe. You see, Rick is a government attorney. When he goes there they put him behind a desk inside an office inside a metal building behind concrete blockade behind a barbed wire fence, etc. Still, I worry. Anything could happen. He could drown in a dirt storm or accidentally staple himself to death. But Rick has always done his best to assure us that he’ll be okay. He’ll come home safe.

Well, a while back he took that message to the extreme. He’d been tasked to Iraq for a few months. While he was gone, largely due to my insanity, I decided to host a huge family party. My house was full of moms, dads, sisters, and brothers, as well as a bevy of cute nieces and nephews. They all missed Uncle Rick. Could we Skype him? Of course! We moved my laptop to the kitchen table so all could see.

When we called, Rick was at home (a metal storage container). We laughed and joked for a little while. Then Rick said, “Hey, guys! Want to see what I look like in full battle gear?” The kids squealed, “Yes!” Rick proceeded to put on 1000 pounds of gear. He looked bad ass cool. The kids ‘oohed’ and ‘ahhed,’ then Rick said he had to go. We ended our call and I thought that was the end of the story.

It wasn’t.

What Rick hadn’t told us on that sweet family day was the reason he’d put on all that gear. Spoiler alert: he didn’t do it to impress our little crowd of pipsqueaks. Not at all.

Months later, after he was safely back at home, he told the reason he’d donned his gear. While he’d been talking to us, the base had kind of sort of gone under attack. “I didn’t know how to explain it to the kids,” he told me. “I didn’t want to scare them.” Or for me to freak out. When he told me that story, I wanted to hug him and throttle him at the very same time. I had to admit, it was pretty funny, given he was safely back home telling it to me in person.

But not everyone comes home. That thought is always in the back of my mind when Rick is away. Thanks goodness he’s not there often, and he really is much safer than so many others over there.

The others.

There are so many people -- families, soldiers, government employees -- who have sacrificed much more than us. On this Veteran’s Day I want them to know that they are forever in my thoughts.

They are my heroes.


 


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11/09/2012 11:00

What a good story!

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11/09/2012 11:17

Thanks, Theresa! I've got to hand it to Rick. He thought fast!

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11/09/2012 13:33

I love the way Rick handled that situation, Janene! That's what true grit is all about. Great post.

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11/09/2012 13:38

I'm with you. That was some quick thinking, though it still makes me shudder just thinking about it!!

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Heidi
11/09/2012 13:34

Awesome story:)

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11/09/2012 13:39

Glad you liked it!

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11/11/2012 05:21

I think Rick did the right thing but not alarming you and the kids, he's a smooth operator and thoughtful. Lovely story though, and we do owe to those before us who died to give us freedoms that many places still don't have.

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11/11/2012 06:53

I think he did, too. Can you imagine the panic on our end if he'd told us the truth at the time? Yikes! And there are so many people than just active-duty soldiers that go over there. They should all be commended.

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11/11/2012 14:50

Thanks for sharing that story Janene. I'm like you I would still be worried because not everyone does come home. One this Remembrance Day I salute those who did not return, those who did, and those who are serving overseas now. Oh when will wars ever end.

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11/11/2012 15:17

All of them deserve those salutes. Thanks for thinking of them. It's great to see you back here. Hope all is well!

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susie @ persimmon moon cottage
11/12/2012 12:24

Wonderful post! Thinking of and thanking all our loved ones "over there".

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11/12/2012 13:23

Aw, you're so sweet! I'm sure they appreciate, too.

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