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You are never going to believe what I just found out.

 I'M FILTHY, STINKING RICH!

I found not one or two, but three separate
credit card offers in my mailbox today! If I play things right, my spending power is about to increase three-fold! A world of riches will be mine, and the excitement doesn't even end there.

The credit company I do use just sent me an updated card as well. Along with it they sent me another completely different card. I didn't have to ask!

That’s right. I got an unsolicited American Express card. I thought it had to be a mistake. I'd never applied or even asked for one, but my credit card confirmed that it was mine. You see, they had been worried because my current card wasn’t accepted at Neiman Marcus. Such a travesty!

Alas, Neiman Marcus, with their upscale, over-priced clothes. That's my kind of shopping...except it isn't, really. In fact, I only have one thing in my closet from Neiman Marcus: a Marc Jacobs black fringed top I’d found double tagged on a clearance rack at Filene’s Basement. 

Truth is, financially my family does okay because I don’t go credit card crazy. Credit cards can lure you into spending money, especially when you shouldn't.

I still remember back during my college days when a friend got her very first card. Her first bill was $34. She let it slide, rolling the bill to next month. Then she rolled it again. Six months later, finance charges and late fees turned that $34 into over $200. She nearly had a heart attack.

When it comes to credit cards, don't carry too many and do your best to pay them off every month. My rule is if I can’t pay for something straight out of my checking account, I can’t afford it on my credit card bill, either.

If you want a few more tips when it comes to credit cards, loans and money, take a peek below:

MOM'S MONEY TIPS

1. 'Special offers' aren't really special. If a company or salesman says you've been 'specially selected,’ don’t feel flattered. They just want your money. It’s called marketing.

2. ‘Low, easy payments’ are no deal. The lower your monthly payment, the more you pay in the end. Here's an example:

Say you take out a 6% loan for $5000. 

      - If you take out a 1 year loan, you’ll pay $430/month for 12 months. TOTAL: $5164.

      - If you take out a 3 year loan, you’ll pay $152/month for 36 months. TOTAL: $5476.

      - If you take out a 5 year loan, you’ll pay $97/month for 60 months. TOTAL: $5800.

3. Always ask yourself: Do you need it now, or can you wait? If you can wait, put that money in the bank until you’ve saved enough to buy it outright. For all you know, by that time you might not need or want it anymore.

4. Paying full retail price is for chumps. Wait until it’s on sale.

5. Cars are an expense, not an investment. Man, I've seen a lot of people become slaves to their car payments. Don't let that be you. Make sure buy a vehicle you can comfortably afford. Plus remember, its value decreases as as soon as you drive it off the dealer's lot.

6. It’s all about give and take. If you find something expensive that you absolutely must have, ask yourself what you’re willing to give up in order to get it.

7. The little things add up. A $3 cup of Starbucks coffee every morning = $90/month. Yowsers.

8. Time is money. If you make $8/hr and wait until those killer $60 jeans go on sale for $40, you're not just saving $20 but 2-1/2 hours of work.


That’s all I’ve got for now. Make me proud and spend your money wisely! And if you're wondering what happened to those offers and the American Express card, they're in the trash.

 


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04/13/2012 14:16

As someone who has paid for everything in cash for years, I love this advice! You are one smart cookie when it comes to finances.

I will advise that having some credit is good, but only if you know you'll pay it off...or if it's a true emergency. I got turned down to buy a house because I didn't have any credit cards. Funny, the bank won't loan me money because they don't know if I can pay it back even though I've been paying for everything on my own. What a funny system we have ;)

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04/13/2012 14:29

I'm glad you agree with my advice. You're right. It is important to build credit and sometimes it's a wacky business trying to do it. Having a credit card and paying it off every month is a great way to do that. Having a credit card and letting is slide, not so much. ;)

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04/13/2012 14:20

Wow Janene, I so agree with you. My husband is a former bank Vice President and has taught me so much about managing money. We each have a credit card and that is our limit----one each. But we are very cautious about using them. It's ironic because I find that I can afford more these days because we have very little debt. People should throw those extra cards away before they are tempted. I fell into that trap once. Never again. You are a wise woman----and rich!

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04/13/2012 14:32

You are one financially wise woman!

We have three credit cards, but only use one at a time depending on the cash back deals available at the time. The big thing is paying them off every month. Credit card finances charges are outrageous!

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04/13/2012 16:58

I've never owned a credit or even had a checking account. I finally got a debit card this year so I could become VIB at BC. I hardly spend any money anyway. All my loose and unloose cash goes to pay for my daughter's drugs. (Just kidding.)

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04/14/2012 06:42

Wow! That's pretty hard core, HP, and I'm not talking about the drugs! ;)

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04/13/2012 17:02

Great advice from one of the smartest Moms I know. ;D

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04/14/2012 06:42

Aw, shucks. Thanks!

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04/13/2012 20:47

Your tips for avoiding being sucked in are right on. It's good to hear someone tell it like it is.
Statistics show that college students in the United States are increasingly suffering from credit debt. The average credit card debt among undergraduate students has increased by nearly $1,000 during the past two years

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04/14/2012 06:44

Ugh. That is so sad to hear. I wonder how much of that $1000 is just interest and fees. That kind of debt can just keep creeping up and up until, one day, it becomes real problem.

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04/14/2012 04:06

Great advice. A good portion of our nations' economic problems were that it was SO easy for EVERYONE to get credit cards - and they spent. I remember the days it was hard to get ccs.
I no longer use credit cards - paying last one off soon.
I love to save - I set up in my checking account - every time I use my debit card (same as cash) - $1 transfers to a savings account. It's amazing how it fast it adds up. Also, every time I use a coupon or save any money - I take that amount and transfer it over. It's like a double good feeling.
I'm all about saving these days. I don't want much/don't need much and I am trying to teach my kids the same lesson - it's tough because today it seems kids have TOO MUCH stuff. But that's another story...

Great post!

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04/14/2012 06:51

I agree whole-heartedly. It is way too easy to get and use credit cards. There are so many people walking around with huge cc debt, as if it's a fact of life. It isn't. They should be viewed as something to be paid off unless you have a big emergency -- and I'm not talking a one day blowout at Macy's type of emergency. I love what you do with your savings account. Talk about a strategy that really pays off!

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04/15/2012 07:46

these are great tips, janene. i'm not much of a shopper. i buy what i need when i need it, and i don't buy anything i can't pay for with cash. but, i don't believe in saving it all for a rainy day...the money i make is also meant to be enjoyed.

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04/15/2012 08:01

Glad you liked the tips! Finding the right balance between saving and spending isn't easy for some people, but it sounds like you've done it well.

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04/16/2012 03:12

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04/16/2012 03:45

Thank you, Ekta. What an honor! I don't really participate in those, though. Still, it's much appreciated. I like your blog, too. People should check it out!

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04/18/2012 06:43

Janene, great tips here. Number 4, I've found sooo useful especially for electronic merchandise. I am always happy to learn about the 'next big thing' in electronics, as it inevitably means that the current models will go into discount :)

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04/18/2012 10:18

Oh, how I love electronics. A month after you buy the latest and greatest a new, better product comes out! You're right. You might as well get the older model right away. The new ones will be old soon enough!

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04/18/2012 07:42

Yahoo! I didn't know until just now that all those credit offers in the mail (and even over the phone) mean I am rich! It's my lucky day! :)

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04/18/2012 10:16

Tee hee! With attitudes like ours, you can see why the country is in such deep debt. ;) Scary!

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Your son
07/13/2012 11:42

I need to remember these tips....

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07/13/2012 11:52

Indeed, you do! ;)

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